I saw the person who I had thought was the love of my life for the first time after 2 years and he said “wow, you just didn’t change”. But I did. I’ve watched myself evolve over the years to become someone I never thought I was capable of being, and as I grow, I know I’ll continue to change into the woman I want to be.
I stopped being the little high school girl who was naive to what happens in the world. I stopped thinking that love was something that just came to you, and realized that you grow in love, or you wait for it. I stopped being the girl you could walk over and while I’m not 100% where and who I want to be, I’m getting there. So no, I’m not the same, and yes I did change.
I just grew up. Because it was about time. Because one of us had to.
50 shades of fucked up